_____ Your partner is jealous or possessive toward you
_____ Your partner tries to control you by being very bossy or demanding
_____ Your partner tries to isolate you by demanding you cut off social contacts and friendships
_____ Your partner is violent and / or loses his or her temper quickly
_____ Your partner pressures you sexually, forces you to have sex against your will or demands sexual activities you are not comfortable with
_____ Your partner abuses drugs or alcohol
_____ Your partner claims you are responsible for his or her emotional state
_____ Your partner blames you when he or she mistreats you
_____ Your partner has a history of bad relationships
_____ Your family and friends have warned you about the person or told you that they are concerned for your safety or emotional well being
_____ You frequently worry about how your partner will react to things you say or do
_____ Your partner makes “jokes” that shame, humiliate, demean or embarrass you, weather privately or around family and friends
_____ Your partner grew up witnessing an abusive parental relationship, and/or was abused as a child
_____ Your partner “rages” when they feel hurt, shame, fear or loss of control
_____ You leave and then return to your partner repeatedly, against the advice of your friends, family and loved ones
_____ You have trouble ending the relationship, even though you know inside it’s the right thing to do
_____ Your partner constantly keep track of your time
_____Your partner accuses you of being unfaithful or flirting when you have not done so
_____Your partner constantly criticizes or belittles you
_____Your partner controls all finances and forces you to account for what you spend?
_____Your partner destroys or takes your personal property or sentimental items?
_____Your partner has affairs.
_____Your partner threatens to hurt you, your children or pets
_____Your partner threatens to use a weapon
_____Your partner pushes, hits, slaps, punches, kicks, or bites you or your children?